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A month had passed since the nightmare began. Here I am trying to make sense of things, while also trying to make progress.

Physical recovery is the easy bit. To date, I could have potentially consumed a few kilos of ginger, red dates and longans; downed a few litres of tonic herbal soups in all its variations. If only emotional healing is as simple as eating and drinking.

To my family whose presence alone provides immense comfort. My father for being the ever 24/7 Dad, my mother for all the nourishing stuff she made, my younger siblings who had shown consideration and care, and my sister Rose whom I know, is hurting as much as us. Life’s treasures are people together. And I’m blessed to have all of you in my life.

To my husband and best friend. Even though you too are in pain, you continued to hold my hand and gave me strength. How you’d soothe my fear and calm my nerves when I couldn’t sleep at night. I wouldn’t have made it thus far had you not hold up the fort. Because of you, I know everything will be alright.

And to all my friends who had shown tremendous amount of love during this period of time. We really appreciate your messages, cards, flowers, and for keeping us in your thoughts and prayers. You’ve come to me at a time when I find it hard to reach out. I am lucky to know you guys.

Put wonderfully by a friend, “draw strength from the people who love you…your parents, your siblings, Alvin, your friends. Nothing is ever too hard to overcome, especially when you have people on your side.”

Thank you all for being on our side.

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